With summer in full swing in the northern hemisphere, I am getting a number of emails regarding a very sensitive matter…premature ejaculation and how to cure it.
When you say the words, “premature ejaculation,” it makes most men nervous. The fact is that it’s not a medical condition and very seldom does it have a physical cause. That’s the good news. An contrary o some beliefs, it’s not the outward anatomy that matters either.
The bad news is that it’s emotional and mental. There’s no magic pill to remedy the condition. But, it’s only bad news if you choose to let it control you and don’t seek help in treating it.
Premature ejaculation is only premature in the eyes of the beholder and his partner. It simply means that you are ejaculating before you and your partner would like you to. The very name itself, implies that the man is somehow "underdeveloped" or "not fully mature".
For the man, P.E. can lead to loss of confidence, depression, anxiety, self loathing, and withdrawing from his partner. The man can feel inadequate in performing and pleasing his partner. He loses confidence in his sexual performance. He may then withdraw from his partner because of these feelings and possibly avoid sexual relations completely.
Generally, people want to be successful in all things and this desire doesn’t stop outside the bedroom door. It’s a real ego boost to be able to satisfy and fulfill his partner. He wants to show his partner how much he cares through passion and sexual stimulation, but with a perception o having P.E. he may feel that he can’t handle the level of sexual intensity.
With all these emotions brewing, it’s no wonder self worth suffers. It’s as if he has a task to complete and he just can’t get the job done. His partner may not even know he is experiencing these feelings. The partner may then come to have the same emotions, not realizing that it stems from the man’s P.E. So then you are left with a relationship in a vicious cycle. Each partner is feeling the same emotions.
It doesn’t have to be this way. First of all, communication is important in any relationship. Imagine, however, being able to gain control over your intimate experiences and enjoying the sex you should.
Remember I said there is no magic pill for P.E. I have developed a simple step by step that will permanently eliminate your premature ejaculation and make you a marathon man in bed. So if you or someone you know has P.E., make sure you check out my guide to Stop Premature Ejaculation .
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