I am a big believer in sharing feedback from my clients who have been helped or even “cured” of certain medical conditions by using my programs. Never could that statement be truer than with a recent correspondence from a client who tried my Erection Master program. His story could be that of millions of men who “suffer in silence.”
He was a man in his late forties, in apparent good health, who had never had an issue in getting or maintaining an erection. It happened that due to these interesting and scary financial times in which we live, he lost a job he had held over twenty years.
While this was crushing to his ego, it wasn’t until he was unable to find another job and was living on unemployment that he noticed erectile dysfunction happening. At first he assumed it was a onetime thing. One time turned into all of the time.
If he did manage to get an erection, it wasn’t complete and it only lasted for a few seconds at best. To make matters worse, he was so embarrassed that he couldn’t bring himself to visit his doctor or even tell his wife what was really going on. Now suddenly, his once healthy sex life had dwindled to nothing.
So severe was his humiliation that he wouldn’t even visit his doctor to find out what the cause could be and to discuss options. While in his case overwhelming stress would seem to be the apparent cause, I truly believe in seeking a doctor’s advice to rule out a physical illness. Additionally, he had no love of doctors because they always seemed to prescribe a pill for every condition regardless of the condition.
His lack of communication put strain on his relationship with his wife which in turn, even further lowered his self worth. Rather than risk humiliation that she would reject him, he in turn rejected her by telling her, “I’m just not in the mood.” This in turn, did nothing for her emotional well being.
This low self worth led to other destructive behaviors such as drinking alcohol to excess, over eating, lying in bed all day (a big indicator of depression) and cutting off communication with people whom he loved – not just his wife.
At this point, the erectile dysfunction (ED) was just a symptom of a decaying relationship, not the culprit. It wasn’t until his wife delivered an ultimatum – get help or get out, that he finally looked for help.
While he didn’t visit his doctor to discuss his symptoms (at this point it was many, not just the ED) like I would advise anyone who had suddenly noticed erectile dysfunction, he did get on his computer and search the internet for an option.
Once he found my site and read about the amazing results of my Erection Master program (over 93% of those who’ve tried it have found it beneficial) he still wouldn’t end up purchasing my program until he set up a second email account – again, for fear his wife would find out.
Once he did try my program, he finally found success. Of course, at this point, ED was just one symptom of low self-worth and a bad marriage but at least it was a start. When he wrote to me, the email started like this, “I can’t believe I’m even writing to you but I had to share my story…”
This story actually has a happy ending. I encouraged him to keep on working the program for awhile until he was sure he was permanently cured of ED.
Additionally, I recommended my Weight Loss Breeze program for weight loss – being overweight is not just a health concern; it’s a major self-esteem downer.
Of course, communication, no matter how embarrassing the subject, with one’s spouse is key to success in any problem. After all, although the words may seem trite, they are true, “Through sickness and in health.”
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