Expressing emotion and sharing feelings of hurt and shame do not typically describe men. I however am in a rather unique position of receiving such information first hand. I have received countless letters from men who open up about a condition in ways they often just do not feel comfortable sharing with their most trusted allies (wives, partners and good friends.)
Erectile Dysfunction (ED) sometimes referred to as “male impotence” is most simply described as the inability to have or to sustain an erection to such a degree that sexual performance is negatively affected. This basic description is accurate, but it does not even hint at the emotional strain a man or couple suffers as a result.
Unlike off handedly mentioning his cholesterol or blood pressure is up (potentially serious conditions by the way), a man suffering from erectile dysfunction most often feels embarrassment. For one, this condition of course involves a rather private part of the anatomy. For another, masculinity is very often tied to one’s sexual prowess.
ED can have both physical and emotional causes. For instance, a physical problem such as cardiovascular disease, diabetes or medication side effects may lead to erectile dysfunction. Most often though, the problem ends up being more emotional in nature.
In fact, I know of numerous cases in which the ED case should have been temporary because the underlying physical condition that caused it was treated or temporary.
But, the emotional impact of suffering from ED during that time period ends up giving way to mental stress that takes over and perpetuates the condition.
It is estimated that at least one in five men will battle ED throughout their lives. I have to question this statistic in terms of it being potentially too low. After all, a man suffering from ED often does not seek treatment or even report it as an issue, thereby continuing the secrecy of the condition.
Meanwhile, his relationship with his sexual partner suffers or he avoids any kind of sexual relationship at all. Who wants to risk that kind of humiliation? Here again, the damage done to his relationships further contributes to the very emotional stress that allows ED to thrive.
This condition though is very treatable whether it is caused by physical or emotional factors.
One way to help determine whether ED is physical versus emotional is if an erection can be obtained alone, or if you awaken with an erection. If either or both of these situations are true for you, then most likely psychological stress is present. Otherwise, both physical and emotional issues are creating the problem.
Aerobic exercise is touted as a very inexpensive and often effective treatment.
Drugs are also available, but this is not often the most desirable route for many men due to the side effects. Plus, they only help around 40% of cases.
Vacuum Therapy is also available and effective in some cases. But, due to the awkwardness of using the device just prior to sexual activity, many men shy away from mechanical equipment. These kinds of devises can also cause damage that can’t be fixed.
Counseling has shown good promise as it helps identify the emotional issues creating or aggravating the situation.
In addition, my all natural Erectile Mastery Program addresses both physical and emotional causes. It works by increasing the blood flow and energy balance in specific areas or the whole body if needed. Whether you choose my program or another form, I encourage you (or the man you love) to seek treatment for this condition because it can be cured!
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